Hello, my name is Dene Maria Sebastiana,
A Master Coach, Facilitator, Author, and Teacher
With nearly four decades of experience in teaching men, women, couples, and families how to break through their unconscious patterns, emerging more authentic, self-aware, and open hearted. I bring compassionate fierceness, and a multi-leveled capacity to get to the heart of the matter within individuals and between relationships.
Hello, my name is Dene Maria Sebastiana,
A Master Coach, Facilitator, Author, and Teacher
With nearly four decades of experience in teaching men, women, couples, and families how to break through their unconscious patterns, emerging more authentic, self-aware, and open hearted. I bring compassionate fierceness, and a multi-leveled capacity to get to the heart of the matter within individuals and between relationships.
As an accomplished coach and facilitator, I dedicate my skills and knowledge to the triad of my professional life: coaching, facilitation, writing. This is more than a career for me—this is my soul’s calling.
A mission to empower, nurture, and create profound transformations. I firmly believe in the power of change, not only within ourselves but also in the world around us, and I am deeply driven by my commitment to gender equality and balance.
I invite you to embark on this exciting journey of self-discovery and transformation with me. Let's shape our futures together.
As an accomplished coach and facilitator, I dedicate my skills and knowledge to the triad of my professional life: coaching, facilitation, writing. This is more than a career for me—this is my soul’s calling.
A mission to empower, nurture, and create profound transformations. I firmly believe in the power of change, not only within ourselves but also in the world around us, and I am deeply driven by my commitment to gender equality and balance.
I invite you to embark on this exciting journey of self-discovery and transformation with me. Let's shape our futures together.
In my capacity as a coach, I'm on a mission to guide individuals in facing their deepest pains, challenging ingrained unconscious patterns, and fostering their personal development.
My approach is to build a space that is both secure and provoking, encouraging inward reflection and growth. Whether you're a man striving to fully realize your potential, or a woman looking to defy the constraints of patriarchal conditioning, I'm here to support you.
My coaching philosophy is rooted in the conviction that genuine transformation can only emerge from within, and I'm here to accompany you on that inward journey.
In my role as a facilitator, I have devoted decades of my life to leading workshops and training programs aimed at personal development and conscious leadership.
I have initiated men's circles in numerous communities, led developmental trainings for women, and conducted couples workshops.
My work in these spaces goes beyond teaching - it's about creating a safe container, both fierce & tender, for honest conversation, shared experiences, and profound transformation.
As an author, I use my voice and storytelling skills to provoke thought, challenge norms, and instill transformation.
My memoir, "Fierce & Tender: Healing the Deep Masculine", is a testament to this mission, giving readers an intimate look at the journey of initiation, transformation, and heartbreak.
This book serves as an eye-opener, revealing the importance of stepping into a more balanced, authentic version of masculinity.
In my capacity as a coach, I'm on a mission to guide individuals in facing their deepest pains, challenging ingrained unconscious patterns, and fostering their personal development.
My approach is to build a space that is both secure and provoking, encouraging inward reflection and growth. Whether you're a man striving to fully realize your potential, or a woman looking to defy the constraints of patriarchal conditioning, I'm here to support you.
My coaching philosophy is rooted in the conviction that genuine transformation can only emerge from within, and I'm here to accompany you on that inward journey.
In my role as a facilitator, I have devoted decades of my life to leading workshops and training programs aimed at personal development and conscious leadership.
I have initiated men's circles in numerous communities, led developmental trainings for women, and conducted couples workshops.
My work in these spaces goes beyond teaching - it's about creating a safe container, both fierce & tender, for honest conversation, shared experiences, and profound transformation.
As an author, I use my voice and storytelling skills to provoke thought, challenge norms, and instill transformation.
My memoir, "Fierce & Tender: Healing the Deep Masculine", is a testament to this mission, giving readers an intimate look at the journey of initiation, transformation, and heartbreak.
This book serves as an eye-opener, revealing the importance of stepping into a more balanced, authentic version of masculinity.
Welcome to your journey of transformation. As your coach, I, Dene Maria Sebastiana, will guide you in unlocking your hidden potentials, shaping your goals, and crafting your destiny. Utilizing my expertise in coaching, facilitation, writing, we will work hand-in-hand to illuminate your path towards self-discovery. This isn't about becoming someone else, but rather, unveiling the best version of yourself, embracing equality and balance in all aspects of your life. Let's collaborate on this journey towards your personal evolution.
Welcome to your journey of transformation. As your coach, I, Dene Maria Sebastiana, will guide you in unlocking your hidden potentials, shaping your goals, and crafting your destiny.
Utilizing my expertise in coaching, facilitation, writing, we will work hand-in-hand to illuminate your path towards self-discovery. This isn't about becoming someone else, but rather, unveiling the best version of yourself, embracing equality and balance in all aspects of your life.
Let's collaborate on this journey towards your personal evolution.
Personalized sessions tailored to your unique needs and aspirations.
Comprehensive approach, integrating personal growth, professional advancement, and social engagement.
Application of tried and tested coaching techniques, supplemented by my unique insights from authorship and facilitation.
Deep commitment to fostering gender balance and equality in all walks of life.
Hands-on guidance and support throughout your transformative journey.
Constant motivation and inspiration to help you discover and embrace your best self.
A nurturing environment encouraging open communication, fostering a mutual trust and respect.
Personalized sessions tailored to your unique needs and aspirations.
Comprehensive approach, integrating personal growth, professional advancement, and social engagement.
Application of tried and tested coaching techniques, supplemented by my unique insights from authorship and facilitation.
Deep commitment to fostering gender balance and equality in all walks of life.
Hands-on guidance and support throughout your transformative journey.
Constant motivation and inspiration to help you discover and embrace your best self.
A nurturing environment encouraging open communication, fostering a mutual trust and respect.
"The heart is the doorway, the place of truth, the place of greatest pain, the place of wholeness. On the other side of this inner battle, the ‘new warrior’ finds himself … open-hearted, vulnerable, fiercely honest, courageous …where the True Self accrues authentic power. When a man says ‘yes’, his life is never the same. When he says ‘no’, his life is always the same."
"The heart is the doorway, the place of truth, the place of greatest pain, the place of wholeness. On the other side of this inner battle, the ‘new warrior’ finds himself … open-hearted, vulnerable, fiercely honest, courageous …where the True Self accrues authentic power. When a man says ‘yes’, his life is never the same. When he says ‘no’, his life is always the same."
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"First, I want to thank you Dene, and acknowledge the grace and power which you have modeled for me as a leader on our trainings. Especially these past few years, I have seen in you a quiet yet fierce way of leading that I do not see in other men.
I’ve seen you expand the perimeter and deepen the context for the men on staff many times. I believe the impact still has a rippling effect here in our local community.
I am remembering the times when you read from the Tao of Leadership, or The Rag & Bone Shop of the Heart. Great stuff and it was so different from the forceful leadership that is often seen in the world.
Well done … and your fierceness was right there when you wanted to wake the staff up and focus the energy in a different way."
"Dene is a world class facilitator and brilliant coordinator of group dynamics. He has the ability to go deep with the individual and to similarly invite the collective, a rare combination of talents.
Dene’s strongest gift is his compassion: a poignant ability to see with deep feeling and to feel with great vision. He has a perceptive, laser–like capacity to see to the heart of the issue, and not get lost in peripheral maze of details.
He is able to stay with what is essential, to keep bringing things back to where the meat of the matter is. Therefore, he is effective and efficient in using his and his clients’ time and energy."
~ Don H
"Last weekend, I witnessed a man filled with unconditional love for women. I marveled at your passion, conviction, and willingness to fully offer yourself up to a group of women who needed your wisdom, tenderness, and ultimately your strength.
I was sustained in a way I could not have anticipated by the way you guided us and then walked with us into the fire of truth. You are a man magnificently balanced in your masculine and feminine energies, full of grace, willing to put yourself on the razor’s edge.
I am lifted up and humbled by the knowledge that my path to authentic womanhood was to be revealed to me by a man.
Men and women healing and evolving together – hope is alive."
"Dene provides a safe and open environment for the often painful work of getting to the root of relationship-threatening dynamics.
Our work with Dene has produced great shifts in behavior and uncovering deep truths about ourselves and our relationship. The sessions are never clinical, but empathetic and compassionate.
I recommend Dene to anyone wanting to move beyond their own limitations and false beliefs, and entrenched blocks in their intimate relationships."
~ Natalie R & Scott L
"First, I want to thank you Dene, and acknowledge the grace and power which you have modeled for me as a leader on our trainings. Especially these past few years, I have seen in you a quiet yet fierce way of leading that I do not see in other men.
I’ve seen you expand the perimeter and deepen the context for the men on staff many times. I believe the impact still has a rippling effect here in our local community.
I am remembering the times when you read from the Tao of Leadership, or The Rag & Bone Shop of the Heart. Great stuff and it was so different from the forceful leadership that is often seen in the world.
Well done … and your fierceness was right there when you wanted to wake the staff up and focus the energy in a different way."
"Dene is a world class facilitator and brilliant coordinator of group dynamics. He has the ability to go deep with the individual and to similarly invite the collective, a rare combination of talents.
Dene’s strongest gift is his compassion: a poignant ability to see with deep feeling and to feel with great vision. He has a perceptive, laser–like capacity to see to the heart of the issue, and not get lost in peripheral maze of details.
He is able to stay with what is essential, to keep bringing things back to where the meat of the matter is. Therefore, he is effective and efficient in using his and his clients’ time and energy."
~ Don H
"Last weekend, I witnessed a man filled with unconditional love for women. I marveled at your passion, conviction, and willingness to fully offer yourself up to a group of women who needed your wisdom, tenderness, and ultimately your strength.
I was sustained in a way I could not have anticipated by the way you guided us and then walked with us into the fire of truth. You are a man magnificently balanced in your masculine and feminine energies, full of grace, willing to put yourself on the razor’s edge.
I am lifted up and humbled by the knowledge that my path to authentic womanhood was to be revealed to me by a man.
Men and women healing and evolving together – hope is alive."
"Dene provides a safe and open environment for the often painful work of getting to the root of relationship-threatening dynamics.
Our work with Dene has produced great shifts in behavior and uncovering deep truths about ourselves and our relationship. The sessions are never clinical, but empathetic and compassionate.
I recommend Dene to anyone wanting to move beyond their own limitations and false beliefs, and entrenched blocks in their intimate relationships."
~ Natalie R & Scott L
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Call 520-301-0122
Email: dene@denemariasebastiana.com